Jensen says he’s not surprised that there can be a disconnect between children who believe their siblings are the favorite and the well-intentioned parents who think they are treating their offspring equally. Some decisions parents make, such as bedtimes and chores, are based on age — but may not be seen that way by the kids unless the parents explain why they’ve made certain rules. He adds that spending more time with your kids, individually and as a family, is a way to show them love and concern.
Researchers concluded that family dynamics can make all the difference. It’s important for parents to realize that to kids even the perception of playing favorites could have a negative impact.
